To quote Dr. Zoidberg from Futurama, "Why always the fighting?"
Why? Why deny people the statues of marriage?
Just put aside your incessant bigotries, and let people be happy. In all truthfulness, same sex marriage will not negatively impact anyone. It will only let people who want to be seen as equal, be equal. They just wanted to be treated the same as others. Why in America, where equality is suppose to be a given, it can't be given?