Kids who turn into young adults have the right to their own opinion
Children should make their own decisions
Kids have a right to see and find what they want in their future. It would be like treating the young adult as a child evn though he is old enough to move out. Children have always been told that they can be whatever they want when they grow up. It would be like taking it away from them and saying "Nope. You have to go to college and fill your family's honor," or something like that.