Would be act of humility by U.S.
Everyone hates us, instead of gloating, offer the money to the families, and move on.
One of the main reasons everyone hates the U.S. is that we continually claim that we are the greatest country in the world and that everyone else should bow under our power. The terrorists cite this arrogance on almost a daily basis. What a great change of pace would it be to selflessly distribute this money as a sort of "No Family Left Behind Act" and instead of celebrating bin Laden's death, move forward and leave these events behind.